Among the most heartbreaking symbols of Martha Nolan O'Slatarra's life that was carried to the altar at her funeral mass was St Martha's Prayer.
Those gathered at the Cathedral of the Assumption in Carlow on Wednesday heard of how the late designer was born on a Tuesday and so tragically died on Tuesday, and how her devoted mother, Elma, has always said St. Martha's prayer on a Tuesday.
Martha died aged 33, at Montauk Yacht Club in East Hampton, New York, on the fifth of August, with her cause of death still pending.
Her shock passing has generated widespread speculation, but as those who knew and loved her best said their last sorrowful goodbyes, the focus was firmly on her life.
As well as St Martha's Prayer, her passport was a reminder of 'her love of travel and adventure', Irish and American flags as a symbol of her life on both sides of the world, her tin whistle as a sign of her love of music, while her make-up brushes were a symbol of her love of fashion and beauty.
Martha's inner and outer beauty was reflected in a photo of her, and that beauty was also lovingly remembered by her devastated partner, Nick, and sister, Jacqui.
Nick became emotional as he spoke of how: 'Martha had a special way of lighting up every room she walked into, whether it was her signature "Hi!", or signature hand gestures... one couldn't help but feel her positive presence in every space she entered.
'Martha had a way of putting people she loved first. She loved helping people, and many of you in this room have been lucky enough to experience that love, whether it was telling you to cop on and focus on the good in this life or just being a shoulder to lean on.
'The shining light that Martha brought into this world is a reflection of everyone in this room, friends, family, loved ones, both past and present.'
'We have all been lucky enough to know Martha, and we must live every day forward with her in our hearts. May she rest in peace.'
Jacqui spoke of how her sister had 'taught me everything I need to know in life,' adding that even though she didn't always see her, she always knew Martha was there.
'Growing up with you was like having a built-in best friend, from sharing secrets to late-night talks, we've been through it all together, through thick and thin,' she said.
Jacqui added: 'A sister's love is consistent. We know each other's quirks, dreams and fears. The bond between us sisters is unique and unbreakable.
'So here's to sisters, the ones who make life brighter, who know you best, and who love you the most. Cheers to the laughter, the tears and the countless memories that were made, you will be in my heart forever.'
Martha was sent off to her final resting place to the strains of Travellin' Soldier by The Chicks and will be buried at St Mary's Cemetery in Carlow.
